all of these people obsessed with someone else’s weight, constantly questioning what you eat, how much you eat. commenting on every calorie or gram of sugar acting as if they do it all because they care, but notice how they rarely ever ask you how you’re doing mentally. no, they’d rather focus on what size pants you’re wearing than whether or not you want to live today.
“Do not tell her you love her if you are not ready for her to call you at 3 AM freaking out. Do not tell her you love her if you cannot handle her father or mother. Do not tell her you love her if you cannot love her at her worse. Do not tell her you love her if you only crave for her curves, not her mind. Do not tell her you love her if you cannot deal with her mood swings. Do not tell her you love her just to have sex.”—
“He may still love you. He probably does. He probably doesn’t know what he wants. He probably still thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.”—